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mjbonoan
08-22-2007, 01:44 PM
If anyone's been wondering where I'm at... well... I have a bad UTI, plus other issues. Haven't felt like doing much. I went to my MD on Monday and he gave me an antibiotic, just now started feeling a bit better. As always he got after me about losing weight... he gave me 1 year to lose 33 pounds and that's the way we're going to do it until I lose the whole 150 I need to lose!!! (Since BC/BS will not cover my lapband!)
I have an appointment with my OBGYN... to handle my "other issues" I've needed a hysterectomy for over a year now, and this will be my second opinion. I'm hoping that there is some sort of "miracle cure" for fibroids, but I know that there isn't. This surgery is specially hard for me to decide on because I don't have children and this would bring complete closure to this part of my life. Being "childless" is something I never thought I'd be, but it wasn't by choice, life just turned out that way and I've always felt that I was delt a bad card. Unforfunately, there are some things in life that one cannot change and this is one of them for me.
Another thing is that "my baby" brother is going away to college and I'm completely heartbroke, I don't say much about it because it makes things harder for my mom. For the last month I've been living with a knot in my throat, just ready to burst into sobs. I am totally devastated... I am going to miss him so much. I know he has to go away to finish his education and I know that he is only a phone call away, but still it's not the same. I'm hoping that he will be home as often as possible... maybe we can plan to go see George Lopez in October for his birthday!
I'll be gone through this coming weekend because we're going to leave him in San Antonio.
Thanks for listening!
Your prayers and support during this time are greatly appreciated...

Tonii... I'll call you as soon as I get back from my trip!

emmcee
08-22-2007, 01:49 PM
We have been wondering about you, and Myrna posted a thread telling us about some of your health issues. Prayers are sent for you and hope you soon get better. Try to get some rest and we are all thinking about you and missing you.

mydogstinks2
08-22-2007, 02:18 PM
It's good to hear from you! We were all wondering what had happened to you! I hope your feeling better soon.

Christie
08-22-2007, 02:29 PM
so glad you checked in. Sorry your having medical issues. I hope that your feeling better soon. I know you are close with your brother and that's going to be hard for you too. Think about how hard it is going to be for him, leaving his family. He'll be fine and come back every holiday, I'm sure of it!! He's going to make you very proud!

ellie
08-22-2007, 02:35 PM
Oh MJ, I am so sorry you are going through all of this. My heart aches for you...I wish I had some magic words to make you feel better but all I can do is offer my shoulder and to let you know I am praying for you right now. Let us know how you are doing when you can.:flowers:

Caboverde1
08-22-2007, 03:17 PM
Mj...take care honey...you have alot on your plate...im here if you need a listening ear...CALL ME!

TOnii

Tantalize
08-22-2007, 03:49 PM
MJ, Im so sorry that you have to go through all of this. Please know that we are all here to support you in any tough decisions you have to make. Take care of yourself.

Nadine
08-22-2007, 04:03 PM
I'm so sorry you're having a rough time right now. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

logcabincreations
08-22-2007, 04:14 PM
My sister has the fibroids too, and had a hysterectomy without having children. I pray God will lead you to make the right decision and give you peace in your heart. I have frequent UTI's too; they are no fun at all, and I'm facing bladder surgery in the near future. And your brother will have such a great time at school. To help not to miss him so much, why not start planning some care packages you can send him. It will give you something else to focus your energy on and will be fun to do. Here's a hug, and I hope you feel better very soon.

teabear
08-22-2007, 04:17 PM
Sending you a big hug, MJ.

ccstampin12
08-22-2007, 04:48 PM
happy to hear from you. Hoping you'll be feeling better soon...sorry about missing your brother...can't think of a thing that will make that better for you.
Hoping your health issues will be better soon!
HUGS
Joanie

Swanie78
08-22-2007, 05:02 PM
Take care of yourself!
Sorry youre sad about your brother leaving :( At least you can be proud of him for going to college though!!

GrammaStamper
08-22-2007, 05:51 PM
MJ, I hope you get to feeling better soon. You do have some difficulties to deal with, but we women are a strong bunch and you will come out the other side. Keep you chin up and know prayers are being offered for you for whatever it is that you need.

JBgreendawn
08-22-2007, 07:14 PM
I'm so glad you checked in,
sending {{{ HUGS }}}

cindi
08-22-2007, 07:22 PM
I'm sorry your not feeling well and that your sad.
HUGS
I hope you feel better soon
:)

hbpuppy
08-22-2007, 11:25 PM
You poor thing. I'm so sorry that all this stuff is hitting you at the same time.

shuggy
08-23-2007, 12:21 AM
i hope you get feeling better soon.