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ctinyjoy
12-31-2006, 09:40 PM
i have been trying to post a reply and it won't let me. It sits forever and doesn't post. So here is my reply:
Four years ago my DH and I seperated for 8 months. In the beginning he was over here all the time to see the kids. I finally told him part of being seperated meant that he needed to be somewhere else. He did get a camper and moved into a campground and the boys did go and visit over there eventually. It is hard because part of you may want him out and yet at the same time you don't. After 8 months, he was a better person (he was mean and hated life and himself...long story) and moved back in. Things are 100% better now and even he admits he doesn't ever want to feel like that again.

so, in answer to your question, it is ok to be hurt tonight since you had been sharing other holidays together. But April, maybe he felt you wouldn't want to with him tonight?

Inkyhands
12-31-2006, 09:49 PM
I have also had to say to him....part of being seperated is being apat....he was being here way too much.