Oh Julie, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I remember something like this before happening. I agree with what so many said about taking care of you and the kids. Get some legal assistance as soon as possible. I can relate to the way your dh is. My ex/my daughter's father is just like him. Very childish and immature always thinking about himself first even to this day. I am not with him thank God!, but he is still the same and in his 40s..so I know he wont change EVER. But hopefully you wont let him come back. I dont really understand how men can treat their children the way they do. Unreal. Girlfriend, know that we are here for you anytime you need us. I've been thinking about you lately. Wondering where you have been...so sorry to hear all that is happening to you.
I am sending you BIG HUGS and lots of positive thoughts and prayers.