Many times in the past when people have posted that they need hugs or prayers, I have said a prayer and sent a hug to them in my heart and posted it. I always wondered how that helped. I mean, it is virtual after all. I posted this on facebook and here. I have received words and gentle hugs and bear hugs and prayers and wishes. It is amazing to me how much those truly mean. I feel the hugs and words as if someone said it to me not just virtually. My grieving heart thanks you for your hugs and words. They make a difference