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MidwestStamper
09-04-2008, 08:14 AM
My one and only sibling is my younger brother Don--he's just 14 months younger than me.

We were very sad to find out last night that he had died sometime in the past two days. We had to call the police to get into his house, and they found him. We are waiting for a report today from the Medical Examiner for a cause of death.

My Mom usually hears from him or sees him every day since he's been helping her alot. He just got laid off from his work a month ago so he's had sort of irregular schedule. We'd all been together on Monday for a pleasant Labor day picnic at our place.

But by last night we realized that neither of us had heard from him or seen him (he only lives a block from us and very often hangs out at our house) since Monday. We got ahold of one of his best friends, and he also hadn't been able to get in contact.

So we went to his house, saw that his car was still in the garage, and the AC was running even with the cool temps. We had keys to open the screen door, but it appeared to be locked from the inside. So we finally called the police, and they had to push in a window AC unit to get in.

So now we will have to go through the whole process again that we so recently went through when my Dad died this past January.

My brother was only 49, but was one of those guys who never went to the doctor so we have no idea what was going on with him internally. He wasn't married--my two boys had always meant so much to him.

Thanks for 'listening'. I don't know how much I'll be on the MB for the next week or so as we make funeral plans and deal with his personal business.

Sherry
09-04-2008, 08:19 AM
Oh Lidia, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know first hand how shocking it can be to unexpectedly lose someone you love dearly.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

tojoco
09-04-2008, 08:19 AM
Ohmygosh Lidia! How awful to find your brother this way. My heartfelt and deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry to hear this.

mahodgman
09-04-2008, 08:20 AM
Oh no! I'm sorry for your loss, that is very sad news.

allinkdup
09-04-2008, 08:25 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers & thoughts.

jazzypurple853
09-04-2008, 08:28 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

scrapsoon
09-04-2008, 08:30 AM
My deepest sympathy for you and your family

Mrs. Fence
09-04-2008, 08:31 AM
Lida, I'm so sorry about your brother. I lost my only (and younger) brother a couple of years ago, so I know how hard this can be. I'll be praying for you and your family.

irishchristine
09-04-2008, 08:35 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.

Artyfarty
09-04-2008, 08:40 AM
So very sorry for your loss and will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzanne
09-04-2008, 08:42 AM
Lidia sorry to hear about your loss. Big Hugs to you family.

My3Ds
09-04-2008, 08:47 AM
Lidia - I'm so sorry for you and your family. Keeping you in my thoughts.

Spartymom
09-04-2008, 08:59 AM
Lidia, I'm sorry to hear about your brother. MY thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

emmcee
09-04-2008, 08:59 AM
Oh Lidia, I'm so sorry to hear this news about your brother. I'm keeping you in my prayers.

flyingflower
09-04-2008, 09:05 AM
(((((hugs)))))

Far North
09-04-2008, 09:09 AM
Oh Lidia I am so sorry for the sad news. Heartfelt sympathy and prayers sent to you and your family!...Jan

ccstampin12
09-04-2008, 09:12 AM
Lidia,
I am so sorry you are going through this. My sympathies to you and your family.
We'll miss you while you are dealing with this. I hope you find the strength to get through this.
HUGS
Joanie

shadoob
09-04-2008, 09:16 AM
Lidia,
I am so sorry for you and your family. I can't imagine the pain of losing your only brother and your father within such a short time.
Blessings and hugs to you,
Cheryl

dreis1
09-04-2008, 09:21 AM
Lidia, my deepest sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your brother so suddendly. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Glinda

GrammaStamper
09-04-2008, 09:27 AM
Lidia, so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

teabear
09-04-2008, 09:34 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss Lidia. Sending you lots of hugs.

Darleneh710
09-04-2008, 09:45 AM
Oh Lidia, I am so sorry for your loss. That is so awful. I will keep you and your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers.

hugs,

toao
09-04-2008, 09:46 AM
So sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for your family.

Vintagegal
09-04-2008, 09:48 AM
Lidia, I am so, so sorry. Oh my goodness. Please accept my deepest sympathies. Your family will certainly be in my prayers.

Mrs. StampFantasy
09-04-2008, 09:56 AM
Hi Lidia!
I`m so sorry for your loss !!!!!

iloveflipflops
09-04-2008, 10:12 AM
I've very sorry Lidia. That is so young!!

TiikkiStars
09-04-2008, 10:18 AM
Lidia, I am so sorry for your loss. That must be so hard to loose someone you love that unexpectedly.

Karen

scrappinnuts
09-04-2008, 10:20 AM
Lidia...I am so sorry for your loss... I will keep you and your family in my prayers

workin4stamps
09-04-2008, 10:26 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this Lidia. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christie
09-04-2008, 10:57 AM
I am very sorry to hear about your brother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

mom_on_line
09-04-2008, 11:13 AM
I'm so sorry.

Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

loobylou
09-04-2008, 11:14 AM
I'm so sorry, Lidia, for your tragic loss of your brother.
(((Hugs)))

Fief14
09-04-2008, 11:15 AM
So sorry to hear this. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

cindi
09-04-2008, 11:19 AM
Lidia I am so sorry for your loss. what a shock this must be for your family.
I will keep your family in my prayers
shackie hugs

1of2shoes
09-04-2008, 11:23 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your brother, Lidia. You and your family will be in my thoughts as you go through this tough time.

Nancy
09-04-2008, 11:29 AM
I am sending a big hug and condolences to you and your family-Nancy Anthony

Patty
09-04-2008, 11:37 AM
oh Lidia--I have only one sibling--I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I am so sorry--my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Patty

maxiesmom
09-04-2008, 11:55 AM
Oh Lidia, I am so so sorry to hear this. Wishing you all peace at this very sad time.

smkymtsu
09-04-2008, 12:13 PM
I am so sorry Lidia to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

shuggy
09-04-2008, 01:12 PM
oh my goodness, lidia, i'm so sorry for your loss.

cecescraps
09-04-2008, 02:37 PM
Lidia, I'm so very sorry to hear this tragic news. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

logcabincreations
09-04-2008, 03:29 PM
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Keeping you all in my prayers.

directmailscrapper
09-04-2008, 03:31 PM
Lidia, I just checked into the Shack for a second from work and saw your post. I'm speechless. I am so sorry to hear about your dear brother! What a shock. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

tesschap
09-04-2008, 03:39 PM
Lidia,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will be keeping all of you in my prayers.

HeatherJ
09-04-2008, 06:05 PM
So sad, sending prayers and {{{{HUGS}}}} your way.

GSMom385
09-04-2008, 09:42 PM
Oh Lidia that is so sad. You are in our prayers this evening.

MnMommy2
09-04-2008, 09:43 PM
I am so sorry Lidia! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!

pesc
09-05-2008, 08:09 AM
I'm so sorry about your brother. There is no good words in those situations. Here is a (((((HUH)))))

Kreative Dryve
09-05-2008, 05:23 PM
Lidia I am so sorry about the loss of your brother.
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers

CharityHand
09-05-2008, 06:02 PM
I am so sorry about your brother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

lakeslady
09-05-2008, 06:32 PM
I am so sorry . My thoughts and prayers are with you.

ellie
09-05-2008, 07:52 PM
Oh Lidia, I am so sorry. I know your family must be devastated by this terrible shock. Please check in when you can. I am praying for all of you.

karla_m_angelstamper
09-05-2008, 08:24 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

mjbonoan
09-06-2008, 02:48 AM
omg... I cannot imagine your devastation and pain. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family!

limeyscrapper
09-06-2008, 07:56 AM
So sorry to hear your sad news. We'll be remembering your family in our prayers.